After being put off by the name and the cover photo of "Your dog is your mirror" i finally gave in because i was interested in reading a book that argues against pack hierarchy and dominance as i dont believe they're the basis of how dogs behave with humans. The main theme of the book is really about dogs beings conduits of our emotions (
I've managed (over 2 days) to get a pretty steady offlead heel going, in the garden and at the river walk, it even worked whilst we were approaching a family with a dog coming towards us on the 1 metre wide path - i gave her the ok to approach the dog seeing as he was approaching us offlead. The main thing that has changed between now and my previous attempt to get her to heel off lead is how i'm thinking about the process and my intention to reward and release her at a specific spot on the path
I always felt there was something that didnt fit with the whole dominance and submission theory, and i know it's becoming widely discounted now. But i did always subconsciously revert back to sounding/acting more authoritative with certain areas of training but with little success, the only thing i could put my finger on was that i would behave that way when i wasnt necessarily in the mood for training and just going through the motions.
Edited to add - i just searched and realised that this guy was briefly discussed on here last year - he appears to have made the same impression on others ie a bit of a weirdo in some respects but definately onto something


